so as it turns out, the reason i'm slow at responding to/communicating with people is largely due to perfectionism. you may be familiar: "if i can't (or don't know how to) do something perfectly, i won't do it at all (or at least until i can do it perfectly)." which of course is a ludicrous way of thinking, but more on that some other time.
so now that i've finally figured that much out, hopefully it'll be easier to combat. it's almost a relief, because instead of the all-too-common "whyyy am i like thiiiiis????", it's actually something with which i'm already familiar.
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